..i'm lost..sad, mad,frustrated and hurt..

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  1. Olds Weighty Eight

    Olds Weighty Eight New Member

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    Sorry for your loss. So glad you got to make the best of her last bucket list item.
     
  2. CapriceEstate

    CapriceEstate Yacht Captain

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    I don't even know what to say. I am so sorry. At least you made sure that the time she had here was well spent and not wasted. God bless you both.
     
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    the Rev senior junior Charter Member

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    Paul
    Im so sorry to hear this.

    my thoughts and prayers go with you
     
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    mashaffer New Member

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    Sorry for your loss, but glad you were able to take that last trip together. My prayers go up for blessings on you. Take your time.

    mike
     
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    66mopar wagon New Member

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    As someone fighting cancer the worst thing you could hear and I have been reminded of this by the most caring nurses when Im pouty is chemo is not working and theres nothing more we can do. My heart goes out to you and I have a long prayer list for cancer families and you are on it man. take some time to mourn then treat yourself to a long vacation, heck come on over to western Canada I would love to meet you and show you a good time I am blessed to say I kicked cancers butt, just mopping up, I have 2 chemo sessions left and I had a ctscan and everything is good. It never escaped the colon thank god anyhow thanks for sharing and Im so sorrey for your loss
     
  6. OrthmannJ

    OrthmannJ Always looking for old ford crew cabs

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    Paul, as others have said, Words cannot express how you feel. Our words can't heal the pain you feel. I can only offer my sincere condolences, and know that you are in my prayers as well. You have been a strong man through this ordeal and provided your wife with love and caring as you vowed to do when you married her. That is the simplest, truest sign of devotion. This is a season of your life, and I trust you will find strength in you friends, family and faith to carry on. Good luck my friend.
     
  7. dutchys68belairwagon

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    Thanks ever so much for your kind words, prayers and support…..with tears in my eyes and lost for words……all i can say is :
    THANK YOU EVERYBODY…..i would hug you all (if you were closer)

    Buddy of me, posted this on youtube.. a tribute to a great woman, a true friend to many and my soulmate for ever….

    http://youtu.be/XikiyyFZQ-4



    How to describe this day is mixed…..it was a terrible day, but oh so beautiful.
    -----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

    Next things to do is to not an easy job either…i need to sell her bike and some cars will have to go to….(need the money), but at the end of the day i will get over that too..i still have hundreds of nice memories and thats what no man can take away from me!!

    LIVE LIFE


    @ 66mopar wagon…….be careful what you wish for….i might be knocking on your door soon:) i'll be needing that holiday soon...
     
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    GN300 Tipmaster G

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    What a lovely tribute nice between video and still shots.

    Sorry for your loss and God bless you and your family.
     
  9. ModelT1

    ModelT1 Still Lost in the 50's

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    [​IMG] Brought tears to my eyes! It's times like these that show those little things we gripe about are so insignificant.
    Life is short. life is fragile. Live life while you can. We get only one chance at it.
    [​IMG]
     
  10. 81X11

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    Paul I just wanted to chime in as well. Very sorry for your loss sir, but very glad to hear about your final trip. I'm sure it meant a lot to both of you.

    Take care and take things day-by-day. I know I and everyone on here wishes you all the best sir.

    -Mike
     
  11. RatMaster

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    Paul, I can't even begin to understand your pain right now. Please understand that you, your family and your close friends are in my thoughts and prayers.

    here is an old poem for you at this time.

    Do not stand at my grave and weep,
    I am not there; I do not sleep.
    I am a thousand winds that blow,
    I am the diamond glints on snow,
    I am the sun on ripened grain,
    I am the gentle autumn rain.
    When you awaken in the morning’s hush
    I am the swift uplifting rush
    Of quiet birds in circling flight.
    I am the soft star-shine at night.
    Do not stand at my grave and cry,
    I am not there; I did not die.
     
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    fannie Well-Known Member

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    Excellent video!
     
  13. BPinsent

    BPinsent Well-Known Member

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    My condolences to you my wagoneer brother on your loss.
    Thank you for sharing the video and very touching tribute to your soulmate.

    I hope that on your next trip across the pond that you find the time to make it north of the border as canada has really close ties to the Netherlands.

    take care

    B
     
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    Sorry for your loss... my prayers are with you.
     
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    Just read this, M prayers & sympathy to you Dutchy. Lost my wife in Feb., '09, so I know a little of what you're feeling. Hang in there, it never goes away, just gets a little easier to handle over time.
     

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